🌷Being Relatable In Your Relationship...

🌷Being Relatable In Your Relationship...

Often we may unconsciously attach ourselves to subjects outside of ourselves as we attempt to connect, identify & relate to our relationships and/or love. You may find yourself, overachieving, overspending, overdoing, overworked, over the edge or just consistently overwhelmed!

“Love is a state of Being.  

Your love is not outside;

it is deep within you.

It is not dependent

on some other body,

some external form.”

- Eckhart Tolle 

You may very well just need a mental workshop...

Consider whether you’re “Being Relatable in your Relationships”. How do you show up? Whether it’s with your partner, your friends, your family, your spouse, your parents, your children, your coworkers, hell roommates 🤷🏽‍♀️

The most important relationship to consider is how do you show up "for” as well as relate “to” SELF?! 👀

Mull This Over:

👉🏽 DETACHMENT  - Do you detach from your ego w/ negative resistance mentally & emotionally when faced with opposition.

  • If NOT, choose to recognize & understand the energy. As it is often unconscious; Is it compulsive? What happened earlier that day? Are you displacing upset or confusion elsewhere?
    • GROUND YOURSELF!
    • IDENTIFY WITH SELF!
    • CONNECT WITH TRUTH!
    • Try to root your emotions by journaling or find enrichment with self-talk exercises in a mirror.
    👉🏽 SURRENDER - Ok so catch this tea...
    🗣NO ONE HEARS YOU, IF AT FIRST YOU DON’T SHUT UP & HEAR YOURSELF.
    • If you desire willpower, seek clarity! Within...
    • If you require inner peace, be transparent! 
      • The combination of one’s unique experiences & the creativity of their expression delivers a spiritual strength like no other. Leaving room for opportunities of nonjudgmental, non-bias, open and honest communication.
    👉🏽 COORDINATION - Alright! When aligning with others, remember it is STILL your sacred space, so don’t sugar coat shit!
    However the goal is to create UNITY! This is not Uno nor Solitaire ... INNERstand the relationship your create is not a game. & that when you’re really ready to form a connection, bond, relationship or community with a likeminded individual(s) that desire to heal, strive to elevate or has the similar goals and achievements as you; no one person is a winner, yet each CHOSE to participate.
    Find gratitude in that DAILY❣️
    • Pops said “You gotta coooooordinate” 😌
    • Don’t MANIPULATE! Do I have to explain?! 
      • I hope not ....... 😉🙄🙄🙄
      • If you gotta, lie, cheat, steal & hustle your way into a relationship of any kind... HOW LONG DO YOU THINK IT'S GON LAST? Or how much of that do you have to keep up to maintain it?! (YES! Even w/ SELF) 😫
    👉🏽 CONSISTENCY - Take ACTION! 
    ✨Be present in the "now" DAILY.✨
    -
    How you CHOOSE to show up for self
    reflects in ALL you relationships!
    -
    • Hold space for growth & opportunities.
    • Let Spirit work in guidance & the Universe flow w/ favor & abundance. 🌬✨💜✨
    "As we are,
    Sacred in PURPOSE.
    Sacred in TRUTH.
    Sacred amongst all OTHERS.
    DIVINE & PROTECTED.
    GROUNDED UNTO EARTH!"

    As Always,
    Much Gratitude Unto You
    For Divining With Me 
    ~ Shavon Danea ~
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